Divorce is a very difficult and frustrating phase in the life of a person. When children are involved the whole process is that much more trying as you try to keep the children on an as even a keel as possible. People go through stages in the event of a divorce. You’ll experience anger, vengeance [...]
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How to Protect Your Kids When You Divorce
Posted by Cristy on May 24th, 2009
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Tags: Absence, Anger, Bad Mouth, Common Sense, Counseling, Critical Times, dad, Divorce, Friends, Keel, Life Turned Upside Down, Lifelong Effect, mom, parenting, parents, Preference, Promise, Realization, Sense Of Loss, Seperation, Vengeance, Whole Life 
No Comments »Like a child
Posted by Cristy on December 19th, 2008
Like a child I am almost fifty years old and my mother can still make me feel like I’m a child. No matter what I do it is never done the right way for mom. Three years ago she had a stroke. For a year and a half she was in a rehab facility. When [...]
Posted in Motherhood Tags: clothes, dad, feeding tube, fifty years, flowers, god, laundry, medicine, mom, mother, nursing home, refrigerator, rehab facility, several times, shoes, stroke, wheelchair 1 Comment »Insidious
Posted by Cristy on December 16th, 2008
Insidious My mother’s method of trying to control me is best described as insidious. She is the master of the statement in the form of a question and the backhanded compliment. For example, she would never openly say, “You’re fat.” Instead, she asks, “Do you really need to be eating that?” or “You should wear [...]
Even though I am married now
Posted by Cristy on December 14th, 2008
Even though I am married now My mother is very controlling. She likes to still control my life. Even though I am married now, she still tells me what I should do. She likes to tell me what I should or shouldn’t eat. She looks at me with very disappointed eyes when she finds out [...]
She makes me feel inadequate
Posted by Cristy on December 12th, 2008
She makes me feel inadequate My mother, although I am still in College (at the age of 22) requires that I write down every expense that I have because she’s afraid my money amounts are going too much towards alcoholic beverages or other things. Not only does this make me feel inadequate, as if I [...]
